November 2015
Mallery's home cooked meals were made and frozen in advance for the 3 day journey to Gulf Shores, AL. |
Once there she adapted real well in a day to her day and night beds at our new rented condo. (December2015) |
When we turned around, we put Mallery down and she took off. |
She walked almost all the way back with no going in circles. (February 2016). |
With out our everything already packed Nest, we forgot to pack the bike basket. I had to take her in the kangaroo pouch for our last bike ride two days before my hysterectomy surgery. (March 2016) |
After 4 months we headed back north. |
Mallery did really well sleeping on the floor next to our bed in her dog bed, even though it wasn't in her kennel in the hotels on the way home. |
When we arrived home we had snow on the ground, but it soon melted and Mallery was glad to be in her yard again. |
And to roll in "real" green grass. |
Mallery started to like to bury her nose and eyes under her blankets. |
On May 11, 2016, my daughter, Alisha, had to let our Maggie May go home over the rainbow bridge. She was my second most favorite furr soul. She was 14 years old. |
After she was done, I had to pick a lot of grass out of her hair, but that was OK. I just loved seeing her enjoying her senior years. |
Mallery enjoyed the sunny days, when it didn't rain. She always liked to look out the sliding door, even if it was only because the light attracted her to it. (May 2016) |
In June Mallery got her summer cut from her mom. |
On our 2nd boat ride of the summer, |
Mallery seemed to really enjoy the boat ride more than she ever had. |
Mallery napping after a hour on the water. |
Once again Mallery adapted amazingly well to my daughters home in a day. |
Even in 10 days, Bella, Tiffany's cat, and Mallery became tolerate of each other, enough to be this close. |
It was good to be home again away from the very hot and humid conditions in Alabama. (July 2016) |
While we were out for a evening boat ride, we saw this full rainbow around the setting sun, and wings of angels under the rainbow. |
Mallery showed signs of not doing well the first day we got back from Alabama. She was waking me up during the early morning with urinary track symptoms reoccurring. Since we arrive back home late Thursday night we had to wait until Monday to see a veterinary again. During the weekend, she continued to wake me up early in the AM's |
The trip back from Gulf Shores, AL was hard on little Mallery. As soon as we got through the weekend, I made another veterinary appointment. She was diagnosed with recurring urinary tract infection, and given 4 different medicines, one to help with trachea collapsing. On Friday we went back to the veterinary clinc because Mallery was continuing to have issues, this time with more of howling symptoms. The video below, was what she was doing for the last few days none-stop off and on until she got worn down and fell sleep. This howling was something we had never heard from her before! |
We stopped at McDonald's for lunch (Mallery's favorite fast food smells) before her appointment. She had not howled that day, so because she was going crazy while we ate our lunch, I gave her a few bites of hamburger. Ten to fifteen minutes later the howling started again. |
The doctor decided to do a ultrasound and said she was full of gas. No more hamburger for her, which had been her steady diet of turkey, chicken, or beef with veggies, and a starch. No more cottage cheese, creme cheese to wrap her supplements. No more peanut butter to wrap her supplements. No more yogurt or an occasional ice cream. The doctor diagnosed her with gall bladder problems. No more high fats for her. She was given prednisone and recommended we give her 1/8 of over the counter prilosec. How was I going to get her pills and supplements down now without the creme cheese, cheese and peanut butter? |
On the following Monday we had to drive 7 hours to Wisconsin to pick up my mom at my sisters and turn around the next day to get home for our 9 other guest coming to visit us for a week. Once again our little Mallery did real well for this stressful 2 days of long drives and a stay at a new environment for one night. (August 3, 2016) |
Oh my gosh Diane, I thought this might be the blog where you write of Mallerys passing. I got very emotional and started crying before I got to the end thinking it was the time in your story to talk about when Mallery passed away. I know it's coming and we all need to be strong together when you do. I am truly amazed at what a trooper she was and how hard you fought for each day to not be her last. Bless you ....Leslie
ReplyDeleteI know what you're saying. The closer I get to the end the harder it gets again. I am having to fly to Jacksonville, FL.tomorrow for the weekend for my mom's 90th Birthday family get together. I know this might have been long for some people, but it has been a good way to grieve for me. In some ways though it has made it harder because I question my decisions as I remember what happened.
DeleteYour tribute is not too long! You are telling the story of her whole lifetime with you. It is a precious and fitting tribute. I think we all feel quilt and have second thoughts about the actions and choices we made with our loved ones once they are gone. When my other dog "Pepper" died of Heart failure, like you I second guessed a lot of the treatment decisions I made. Eventually I realized me and George loved her more than anyone else loved her and did all we could to prolong her life. I also believe she knew that as well. Remember medicine is not an exact science . Most of the time Doctors are not sure what is the best treatment to recommend. However, if one of those Doctors had found a guaranteed miracle cure for her but it was going to involve even more home care participation and cost a lot of money. Would you have stepped up to put in even more time on her care? Would Joe have opened his Wallet wider? I know the answer is YES to both. You and Joe both gave your all for her and she knew it. So....please grieve her but don't ever question your devotion. She would not want you to. Peace to you , Leslie +_+ questions.
ReplyDeleteLeslie, I am glad you don't think it is too long, but she has been such a big part of our life that, like most people who have loved pets, they literally are family members. I know everyone does what i am doing, second guessing my choices, because I saw my sisters and daughter do it when they lost their pets, but some how you still do it. The peace is slowly coming, it's just hard not to be sad when there is something missing in your life.
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